As people when dating we all want our "Cake and Ice Cream" whether we admit it or not...women want a man who will cook, clean, protect, love, honor, communicate, and respect them. The type of man after a long day at work will be there to pick up the kids(if you have them) make dinner and still rub your feet after a long day, oh yeah can’t forget giving you some of the best "D" you ever had. Now look at all the things (well obligations) that's people want, and if you think that men are more simple than women your definitely...wrong...Men want mostly the same thing however they are usually less likely to express it (being considered to be pushovers)...try asking a man...what is his description of his perfect woman, and I can damn near guarantee one of the first things he describes...if he can describe anything at all (if he knows) is something physical. Wether it’s a woman with long hair, a nice body, nice teeth...it would be nice to have a "good look". That beautiful, intelligent, respectful, woman in the streets but a damn freak being closed doors. An understanding woman will sit down and enjoy sports with her man. An understanding man will gladly go shopping with his woman. Well look at that...more obligations ( maybe i shouldn’t use the word "obligations", I think "compromise" is a better word)...and to those who think obligations are too much to handle...I say getting to work on time is an obligation but shit we do it, well us who have jobs do and for the jobless people wanting love or someone special get you life together 1st. Learn how to love and take care of yourself before you bring someone into your life!
So seemingly its not that hard to find your "Superman" or "Wonder Woman"...as long we ignore things like Age, Race, and social and credit status (well in this recession...the credit thing might have a little more weight...) and if you want your "Cake and Ice Cream” gets your spoons & forks ready...
2 comments:
This is most definately the truth. But people now and day only care about money and sex. There is few people out there who want to be in a real relationship. I like this blog alot, and i feel you alot my brotha!
I most definately feel you on this one. But most people now and day dont care about nothing but money and sex. There's a few real individuals out there who want to be in a relationship. But i do feel what your saying brotha!
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