Standards vs Reality: the wants of life

Life is fun, especially when you take time to analyze it. I was speaking to a couple different female associates of mine today, and the topic came up about why not only me put people in general are single for longer periods time now. I said that it was due to the fact that people start off having huge aspirations with dating and what it all entails, but somewhere along the way because of bad choices in partners and not finding their "one" they just say fuck it. The ironic thing about just saying "fuck it" is that there are a couple of different "fuck it" situations, such as you can "Change your thoughts and Change your world". If what you were doing or where you were going to find people to date was not working simply change it, because obviously the shit your doing was not working. This sounds like the easiest thing to do, but when people are dating, they often live in a "state of Insanity".Even though they believe that they are doing something different they still end up in the same damn place with the same damn thing. A wise person once said that when wanting to obtain something in life you have to "mind fuck" yourself, force yourself to do what you want to do and not let your mind trick you out of it. Sounds simple enough huh, but if that was the case then most if not all of us would be millionaires, happily married living our dreams in everyday life. Now some say that the mind is where each of us actually lives in...not the "reality" of everyday life. Now there is seemingly nothing wrong with that...until the subconscious mind...plays a negative part of reality. I believe that people should live in their dreams...and make those dreams your reality. Have all the standards that you want, if you want a perfect 10 then go and get it, don't live in a state of fear. However do what you think will put you in a position to obtain that perfect 10, for example if you are a person who is a work-a-holic, who lives in the gym, then you cant possibly find happiness with a jobless fat person. NEVER settle, with a job,girlfriend;or boyfriend. Always go for what you want, because in the long run what you settled for will just piss you off, when you have time to think about it. So just go for what you know and what you want because people say that patience is a virtue but patience is sometimes mistaken with pointlessness. I for one go for progress and sometimes progress doesn't come from PATIENCE. You often find that people always talk about doing this and doing that but they talk about it not being the right time it isn't my time yet.."he" has his own plan for me(for those religious types) follow your dreams people, search for what completes you because you are the only person that knows what YOU want. People like to feel comfort and most are afraid of a challenge or traveling the path less traveled by...and there is no growth without challenge so I ask you wither its LOVE...SUCCESS..MONEY...FA

ME...whatever it is that you want...when you have that thought of change or desire or dating trying to find that perfect person...what will you do, settle for whats easy, or go for what you know and make those perfect standards of your dream life.... YOUR REALITY